Emotional intelligence recognizing and managing one’s emotions, for our greater well-being. The horses mirror us; they are filters without judgment, helping us becoming aware of ourselves with greater clarity. That is the first step toward change.

Thanks to the sensibility of horses generally, added to the special qualities of Farriols horses — their trust in people and their willingness to communicate — we provide people with an unique learning experience.

  • Emotional Intelligence dynamic with horses for team building

  • Emotional Intelligence dynamic in the classroom

  • Emotional Intelligence dynamic to create a herd feeling

  • Emotional Intelligence dynamic with horses

The sensation I experienced in Horseway was a supreme inner calm that brought me a sensational image to share my energies with horses, learning how they move, mirroring my way of facing the world.


Origins of Emotional Intelligence

Scientific studies about our emotions began to emerge during the nineteenth century. In 1872 Charles Darwin published The expression of the emotions in man and animals. Another important study to mention is Howard Gardner‘s best-selling Emotional Intelligence. After this book appeared, it suddenly became popular to study emotions scientifically, to learn how they influence our lives.

Multiple intelligences

The theory of multiple intelligences confirms that we have different types of intelligences:

  • Musical
  • Kinesthetic
  • Linguistic
  • Spatial
  • Intrapersonal intelligence
  • Interpersonal intelligence

Each one of us is gifted in one, or many, ways, but being healthy in one way does not mean we are healthy in others.

Daniel Goleman goes deeper into two types in his book Emotional intelligence: the interpersonal intelligence, and the intrapersonal intelligence. He explores how emotions affect our decisions, and defines his terms thus:

  • Intrapersonal intelligence “constitutes in a correlative ability – facing inwardly- that allows us to configure an accurate and true self-image, and that makes us able to utilize this image to act more effectively in life.”
  • Interpersonal intelligence “is the ability to understand others: what are the things that motivate them the most, how do they work and how best to cooperate with them. Successful marketers, politicians, teachers, doctors and religious leaders tend to be individuals with a high degree of interpersonal intelligence.” (Goleman).

Emotional Intelligence in Universities today

From these two types of intelligence the GROP (Research and educational psychology guidance group of the University of Barcelona) created a model whereby several different abilities correspond with intrapersonal intelligence, and two with interpersonal intelligence. The abilities are:

  • Emotional awareness
  • Emotional regulation
  • Emotional autonomy
  • Social abilities
  • Life abilities

Emotional education offers to develop these abilities for handling and managing emotions more efficiently. This improves things both for students and the people around them.

Currently, stress and depression are major causes of low points in workplaces, and in our society they are increasing. Once our basic needs have been covered, then we can look for personal well-being, take charge of our own lives, look for jobs that promote our values ​​and potential, and develop holistically as people.

Origins of emotional intelligence with horses

Emotional Intelligence activity with horses to help with personal development and wellbeingEmotional intelligence can be developed through interaction with horses. It is a new type of learning in which interaction with horses develops an individual’s emotional competency. It’s called Equine Assisted Learning (EAL). EAL emerged in the United States after a demonstration of natural taming. It is an alternative to classic taming, in which the animal is tamed from an ethological perspective. We adapt to the horse’s way of seeing the world rather than trying to work other way around. In a demonstration of natural taming directed by Monty Roberts, the head of huge multinational company asked Monty if he could explain to his employees what was needed to ride a horse, because he realized that the skills needed for riding were also needed within the company.

I started doing natural taming because I wished to get closer to the world of the horse, and to know its character. But what I discovered in front of me, like a mirror, was my own frustration, and the fears that accompanied me, and the experience of showing clearly what I want and need. This remains a vital and exciting path, and a constant teaching, full of moments that fill me so as only you can do.


Why with horses?

The difference between horses and people

Horses are different from people. They are prey animals, which is totally different from us. We are the predators. Thus, their predominant emotion is fear, so they are constantly attentive to what is going around them, watchful for any danger.

Dynamics of working dismounted

All the dynamics of horses arise when they are not mounted. Students are taught to achieve an objective with them, to move them, to let them take a tour. They react to what we say, acting like mirrors without filters, so students quickly learn awareness of themselves by noting how others (the horses) perceive them. This sort of clarity is truly a gift, an “Aha!” moment. This clear awareness leads us to undertake the changes we need.

The horses are the teachers

Horses teach us to develop greater depth in our emotional perceptions and abilities, so we can create more positive relationships with ourselves and others.

It is fascinating to see oneself in a horse. Discovering the goodness and limitations of oneself is a good way of improving oneself. Learning how you can get to your challenges working with your attitude, and transmitting it, is very interesting. Feeling respect for someone you have to direct is the first step to doing it well, knowing it is fundamental.


Emotional abilities

What do I feel?

Emotional Intelligence activity with horses for a better emotional self-awarenessRecognizing the emotions we’re feeling, therefore our reasons for the actions we’re taking, and perceiving how others perceive us, is absolutely essential if we want to take charge of our own lives. This is the reflective mirror that the horse offers us. They are not in judgment toward us; all they are looking for is ways to feel safe and calm.

What emotions are more positive for me?

Emotional management through breathing to change an emotion of fear into one of securityAll emotions have a function, so none of them should be repressed. We must manage them, and to do that we must recognize them. Finding the right time with the right person, with the right way of behaving, converts negative emotion into positive action. Controlling impulsive acts reduces negative consequence as we learn to focus our attention on what we want.

Horses, whose priority is safety and tranquility, also have a well-developed concept of justice; therefore, we should manage ourselves in such a way as to transmit trust and safety, but with assertiveness, to the horse. Working at this exercises all the mechanisms of the emotional self-regulation.

Who am I?

Self esteem and self confidence to establish a healthy, positive relationshipWe can’t make changed without being aware of our strengths and weaknesses. A realistic picture of ourselves increases our self-esteem, and possibilities focus more on change and efficiency. Being aware of our values, and taking responsibility for our lives and our processes, helps us accept ourselves. Being authentic and consistent with the horses help us establish a more trusting relationship with the horse.

How do I relate to my environment?

Creating a team with all members of the packSince we are social animals, it is important that we have good relationships with others, but for that, we need to have a good relationship with ourselves.

Empathizing with others, resolving conflicts positively, respecting yourself without hurting another (being assertive), are qualities that help us connect, create teams (groups), and work toward a common good or a common goal. Horses already have integrated such relationships and social norms; we must do the same, show the same skills, if we want to be included in their pack.

What goals do I have in life?

Dynamics to establish leadership through motivation, not impositionOur goal is to lead our personal and professional lives enjoying coherence in our relationships. We set goals and act upon them based upon what we wish to become. Leading our lives is like leading a horse: it requires self-confidence, clarity and precision in the signals we give others, calm in all situations (being assertive) to achieve personal wellness while also allowing it for others.

I started the day feeling exhausted. As the day progressed I came to realize that I did not need to make such an effort if the energy is well channeled and it flows.

IngridEl Masnou

Course in emotional education for children

One three hour session per month (10:00 to 13:00) for 9 months

Every session has an objective (self-awareness, self-love, confidence, empathy) involving work to improve emotional and social skills.
The children play games with the horses, enjoy contact with nature and friendship with the other children, who all have fun while learning in a natural way.

  • The group of emotional education with horses with Espino, a horse who loves to be with people and children

  • Carlos with pony Harmala bonding and creating friendship.

  • Group of kids playing with the horses.

  • Working on the final evaluation, after an emotional education session with horses.

  • During the lunch break, Juliana also want a juice!

The horses transmitted confidence and patience towards me. With them you can be yourself, because they never judge you, and this is what helped me the most.

Yordanos13 years old

I like to be with the horses. They bring me tranquility and amusement.

Carlos11 years old

The horses bring me tranquility and help me with my breathing. Horseway transmits joy.

Txell9 years old

I like Horseway because they make me feel tranquil and special.

Claudia9 years old

The horses can feel your emiotions and at their side you always feel tranquil.

Andrea12 years old

Course in emotional intelligence for adults

One three hour session a month (16:00 to 19:00) during 9 months

Every session has an objective: Self-awareness, emotional regulation, breathing, self-love, non-verbal communication, leadership and well-being.
Our facility and its surroundings let you disconnect from daily routines and connect with yourself. That internal connection helps us look outwards, to create more positive and harmonious relationships.

It is not about disconnecting from the world, but to connect with everything around you, starting with yourself.


The main difference between horses and humans is that they react with confidence where we lack trust.


At Horseway we learn to be ourselves, to understand and understand eachother; to observe and learn to be patient; to be clear with our ways of being; and to reflect upon ouselves and the human herd.

Emocional Intelligence Group

Course in emotional intelligence for companies

We offer courses during the day in:


Dynamic of leadershipHalf-day or whole day sessions with groups of 8 to 12 people.

During the day we make assess and reflect upon our own leadership, and experiment with new ways to lead, observing the impact on our behavior on others.

In one class you can teach people skills. Most already know them but do not know to what extent they can applied. The theory does not impact, nor lose time. We see our behavior with a horse within 20 minutes.

Jose MiguelCoachwww.coaching4results.com

Team building

During half-day or whole day sessions, your work-team can experience different techniques for creating stronger and more collaborative working relationships within the company.

During the day we work with the dynamics among different team members and the horses. At the end, we to understand our friends better, and learn to seek out how to get the best out of each member.



Transformation from a group into a team (herd)

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